I am in love?

I am in love?
It is a very common question, "How can I say, I am in love?" But it's not easy to answer this question. What feels like love to a person May nothing more than the attraction to another. Some people are in and out of love and often quickly while others are never really in love as much as they are in lust. This can get confusing when you are a young person because romantic love is a relatively new concept for you and you do not know what to expect. You are overwhelmed by all sorts of feelings and new social pressures. They are confused. What Is Love? What makes you want a romantic relationship with a person and not another? How does your heart choose a partner? Why is it that love? These issues cannot be easily answered.

One of the most confused quasi-feelings of love is lust. Lust is a very powerful, very intense feeling of physical attraction to another person. Lust is mainly of a sexual nature - the superficial attractiveness is based on the instant chemistry rather than genuine care. Usually, we thirst after people we do not know well, people still fantasize we feel at ease. It is very common for people to confuse thirst for love. But why? What is it about desire and love that make them so easy to mix? If the thirst is all about sex, how can a sexual relationship without being on lust? Teens in this fight because they see the lust in the biblical sense, but thirst are not that grim. Lust is about physical attraction and acting only on physical attraction. Love is much more than that. Yet, many young (and to be fair, many adults) confuse an intense interest in some form if God's love. For teens, from feelings of attraction are still new and that pop culture-selling sex and love as a package, it is very easy to get the two mixed.

Lust is clearly not love. Love is based more on physical attraction. Of course, the attraction is a factor, but love goes further than that. Love is based on care, friendship, commitment and trust. When you're in love is like if you do your best most trusted friend at your side and you feel physically attracted to them. He is the best of both worlds! Love is a feeling shared between two people who have an interest in other happiness. Love is not a question of jealousy. It is not a conflict. It is not testing. Love is a positive feeling. If it is tainted by suspicion, jealousy, insecurity or spitefulness not really love, but simply a pale copy. Love is the total remission of your heart to someone else with the security of knowing they handle better than you. Love should feel good. It should not feel bad. Should be the love that you want to be a better person, it should not lead you to do something self-destructing. Love is not demanding your mind, but the elevators and makes it shine. Love is a good thing. Anything less thirsty east, a deep friendship or nearby. Thus, the sappiness later, the question remains, how can you say you are in love?

It is not easy to find the truth behind your feelings or the feelings of another person, but there are tell-tale signs that love is blooming (or more deep). If you agree with 7 of 9 states you are probably in love.

1. You know, because you have been told by your significant other, your deep feelings are returned to nature.
2. The object of your affection makes you feel special and good about yourself.
3. If / when you feel jealous, it is always ephemeral, you trust your partner not to betray you or hurt your relationship.
4. Nothing makes you feel calm when you and your partner.
5. When you fight with your partner usually make a place within a few hours and you always agree that nothing is more important that you both can express your true feelings (even if sometimes they cause conflicts).
6. Your partner never asks you to choose between him and your loyalty to your family and friends - if you choose him over these documents, you always have a good reason and it is always your decision, your decision and that alone.
7. Neither you or your partners feel the need to test another or feelings of loyalty.
8. Have you more with your partner when you're with someone else.
9. If sex is part of your relationship, it is by mutual agreement will and without the slightest evidence of commitment of tests or persuasion.